By Scarlet Leong
Senior Specialist Psychologist
DAS SpLD Assessment Services
Parenting is challenging for everyone, but for parents with dyslexia, it can feel especially overwhelming at times. From navigating written communication to supporting your child’s education, dyslexia may add extra hurdles to everyday life. However, it is important to remember that dyslexia does not make you any less of a capable parent. By focusing on what you do well and adopting strategies to address your difficulties, you can thrive as a parent and model perseverance for your children. Here are 5 ways you can build your confidence and thrive in your role:
1. Focus on Your Strengths
Dyslexia often comes with strengths like creativity, problem-solving, and resilience. Embrace these qualities as assets in your parenting approach. By highlighting your abilities, you show your child that challenges don’t define you, and that they can overcome obstacles too. Recognising your strengths boosts confidence and sets a positive example for your family.
2. Celebrate Small Wins
Every accomplishment, no matter how small, is worth celebrating. Whether it’s completing a task or finding an efficient way to organise your home, take time to acknowledge your achievements. Celebrating these victories builds momentum and reinforces a positive mindset. Recognising your progress, even in small steps, helps boost your confidence over time.
3. Seek Out Community Support
Connecting with others who understand your experiences can be incredibly empowering. Join dyslexia support groups or parenting communities where you can share your journey and gain advice. These connections remind you that you’re not alone, and learning from others’ experiences can offer new perspectives.
4. Normalise Mistakes
Mistakes are a natural part of parenting, and they shouldn’t diminish your confidence. Instead of focusing on errors, use them as opportunities to learn and grow. Show your child that everyone makes mistakes, and it’s how we handle them that counts. Embracing this mindset helps reduce self-doubt and reinforces the importance of resilience.
5. Share Your Journey
Being open about your dyslexia can create stronger connections with your child. Share your experiences and how you overcome challenges, so they can see the power of perseverance firsthand. This openness encourages empathy and builds mutual respect between you and your child. Your journey can inspire them to embrace their own unique challenges with confidence.
At DAS, we strive to support not only children with learning difficulties but also their parents, who may face challenges in communicating, teaching, and encouraging their children. Join the DAS Parent Support Group (PSG) to connect with other parents and gain valuable insights. To learn more, email us at [email protected].
